My Sister
My sister?
You're kidding!
Sure, I like her,
But I don't remember sharing toys.
Where was she
When I needed salve for my childish hurt?
Yes, she was there
When my own boy needed help.
Parents can't do it all, you know.
It takes love from others, too.
Frankly, we didn't know what to do.
Yes, because of that I'd do anything
—For her.
But…my sister?
Mom and Dad never told me about her.
There was Ellen
And there was Jean
—But Marnie?
They say Ellen and I
Look alike.
Maybe so,
But I know Marnie doesn't look like me.
She doesn't even act like me.
She's sweetness personified.
Me?—I struggle.
My sister, You say!
Oh, I wish that were true.
You told me Heaven
Would be a continuation
Of our best relationships.
I want to be there
When the time comes
Because I know
The Marnies of the world
Go there.
Sister!
I like the sound of that.
I don't see how it could be,
But if You say it,
I believe it.
I understand how she
Could be Your daughter.
I'm trying to also understand
That I'm Your son.
That's harder.
I know me.
Did we really know
Each other there?
Did we play?
—Go to school together?
I guess we're still doing it.
She's taught me a lot
About faith—and prayer.
She's been a choice experience,
In many ways.
I'll do anything at all for her,
Father.
You tell me,
I'll do it.
She's
My Sister.
9 July 1983
Written to a distressed, depressed member of
my ward while I was bishop. It did the trick.